Shopaholism - diagnosis or healthy lifestyle?

The desire of women to decorate if younger women as such, not much, at least the expulsion from Paradise. But now it has become known as a fashionable disease - shopaholism. Better certainly than consumption, but all the same disease. Why? After all, the desire to enjoy life - one of the most healthy desires, which is a human. We believe we each woman enjoying a glass of wine, alcoholics, appetizing and ate salad - bulimia. No, of course. Taste for life - an enviable quality. Rather, it serves as a sign of ill health absence. Why does a woman pleasure hurrying to fitting stalls with a pile of clothes should feel sick?

There is nothing more normal, healthy, life-affirming than the desire to adorn themselves, their lives a happy family. There will be no more delicious dinners, no holidays, no success at work or self-fulfillment to a woman who herself, her appearance left "for later". Later never arrives.

All people and especially women, are created, in particular, to him to decorate the world. Be nice - our sacred duty, everyday work. To do this, overcome laziness, inertia, drowsiness, fatigue, forget about the troubles. And not once, but every day. It is much easier to give up on a hand, because I was "nowhere", "not for anyone", "only to work and everything. And every day we see in the subway, hundreds of whom feel sorry in the morning 20 minutes to myself. "" I do not really crash, sometimes lashes and scribble all "," I do not need anything "," appearance - not the main thing. " Well, not important. We are a large part of my life doing mostly is not. She is one of these not the main pieces and is a member.

Look at the men. It is easy to differentiate among those whose mothers did not care how they look. Because it is "not important".

shopaholism path  begins with feelings of guilt for wanting to spend money on themselves, which is present in many women. But you want! And from time to time we are not constrained and "criminal", "pathological" desire anything currently buy. Most inexpensive, not to say to the family budget, another blouse top. As a result, the typical pattern: a wardrobe packed with lots of unnecessary, often low-quality things that we are not encouraging, to anything not suitable. And when you really need to buy something, the husband or the inner voice of reasonable objection: see how much junk, and how much you already spent this month on the small stuff?

Also, live with the diagnosis easier. Less responsibility for their actions. Leave me all of me, I'm sick shopaholism, I'm not in control, I can.

You have to go from understanding that do not need excuses to buy clothes for themselves. Then the "disease" are not needed. Morbidity shopaholism not that I want a lot of beautiful things, and that I intended to substitute for the quality of quantity. Once we remove the diagnosis and recognize for themselves the right, our purchases will be sensible and reasonable.