Long hair - for and against

Only his daughter had grown long hair from infancy, you give her this freedom of choice - to wear braids or hair cut. - Why did the child to torture, it's so uncomfortable, long hair! She gum from head to pull off, and all the hair on the face of falling! Strabismus is work! - A girl with a scythe - a classic, it's beautiful, she is as proud of their hair! A haircut is always plenty of time, there's a lot of mind do not! The unanimity on this issue in families is rare. Grandmother dreams of vnuchkinyh braids, and my mother just enough that a pair of scissors, then, on the contrary, my mother happy to braid my daughter "spikes", and cherishes the hope to hone my aunt's niece her hairdressing skills. Only the pope almost always takes a firm position: I think women should have long hair, period.
 
So to cut, shave, or raise themselves off? I'm terribly admit, long hair has never happened before. Luxuriant, by the way, too. Parents hoped that if I cut it short, my watery fur pogusteet. This, of course, did not happen, and the suffering on braids, meanwhile, were endless. The first battle for his curls, I won in the third grade, when some of their half-meter odnokashnitsy braids already otstrigali and hid in the memory in the chest. Combed bangs up and fix it obodochkom, I struggled with ugly Patli a year. Previous haircut quickly lost their form, but before any had zapletaniya hair was still growing and growing. There's nothing worse than "average" hair - neither short nor long. Hair can make one single: stupid tail on the back of the head, from which the slightest breeze fly hefty locks and motylyayutsya in anti-artistic disarray. I could not stand, hair cut. Sorry for this, not yet risen to the hairdresser's chair. Began to grow again ...
 
This story is repeated every year and lasted for fifteen years. Yes, actually, until now. What am I doing? And besides, what self-grow hair can only girl with a very, very strong will. And if an adult ten-year girl, shaved a boy, put in front of "honest" choice - "you want - to grow, you want - cut it, then this choice will be still dishonest. Let the child, of course, resolves itself, but decides, having behind him (literally!) Silken richness. To go the first time in the first class with a scythe to the waist, no force will be required from the babes. Actually, the whole painful period of "average" hair lasts only two to three years, when the man still does not understand that with his hair cut, it might be more convenient. A two-year-old girl is already possible to plait stubby pigtails.

And there are still, by the way, tradition: a year old shaven all children without discrimination. Some even subsumed under a scientific basis: if a year or shave off their hair, the new grow excessively thick. Ostensibly to one year and not the hair does grow, and down, which prevents normal hair to break through. So, with fervor refute: fluff, very similar to the hair, the majority of children rolls out another two to three months. Remember: your baby is born hairy, and has since rapidly grow bald. And that has grown after this baldness - is very real hair, which do not interfere with anything. This I am writing for those moms who have no wish to mutilate their daughters, but heard somewhere that "should", "be."